20:13 יג לֹא
תַחְמֹד, בֵּית רֵעֶךָ; {ס} לֹא-תַחְמֹד אֵשֶׁת רֵעֶךָ, וְעַבְדּוֹ
וַאֲמָתוֹ וְשׁוֹרוֹ וַחֲמֹרוֹ, וְכֹל, אֲשֶׁר לְרֵעֶךָ This is one of the hardest Mitzvois, not to be jealous. How are
you Oiver Loi Sachmoid, it is an Aveira She’baleiv. The Rambam in Hilchos Gizeila
Perek 1 Halacha 9 and 10 explains, you are only Oiver if you do a Maaseh that
you get the thing you want. In the other
version of the Aseres Hadibrois that is brought in Parshas Va’eschanan 5:18 it is brought as Loi Sis’a’ve
which the Rambam holds you are Oiver even if you just try to get the thing you
want and you don’t succeed. The Rambam says on both of them that you don’t get
Malkus because it is a Lav She’ain Boi Maaseh. The Raivad asks, how can you say
that there is no Maaseh if the Rambam just said that there is a Maaseh of you
going out to buy the object that you desired?
The
Steipler in Birchas Peretz on this week’s Parsha gives a nice Teretz. The
Aveira is not buying it or getting the object that you desired, the Aveira is
the feeling in the heart. How much Chemda must there be to be Oiver Loi
Sachmoid? It must be enough Chemda that the person actually goes out and gets
this object that he desires. This is only a Shiur in Chemda, however, the Lav
is still one that does not have a Maaseh.
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